{"id":1867,"date":"2021-06-10T21:00:42","date_gmt":"2021-06-10T15:30:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.complianceprime.com\/blog\/?p=1867"},"modified":"2024-03-22T16:58:37","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T11:28:37","slug":"the-anger-trigger-dynamics-the-four-angry-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.complianceprime.com\/blog\/2021\/06\/10\/the-anger-trigger-dynamics-the-four-angry-is\/","title":{"rendered":"The Anger Trigger Dynamics: The Four Angry \u201cI\u201ds"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Anger is an emotion that can strike at any time and in anyone. If we are not careful, anger can become destructive. For many of us, the word \u201canger\u201d conjures up images of an angry person striking out at others or an angry person launching into a verbal tirade. But the anger we experience is often a result of our own making and can occur in many different ways and for many different reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"color:#0E1851;margin-top:20px;font-size:28px;font-weight:bold;\">Related Webinars<\/div><div style=\"width:100%;height:auto;overflow:hidden;overflow-x:auto;margin:20px 0;\"><div style=\"width:calc(3 * 260px);\"><div style=\"width:250px;height:350px;background-color:#D2E0FF;background:url(https:\/\/www.complianceprime.com\/assets\/images\/wdt-back.png);background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:cover;border-radius:10px;margin-right:10px;float:left;text-align:center;padding:25px 10px 0 10px;cursor:pointer;\" onclick=\"location.href='https:\/\/www.complianceprime.com\/details\/1805\/fmla-gets-tricky?utm_source=cp_blog'\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"width:135px;height:135px;border-radius:50%;border:2px solid #2B58B5;padding:3px;\" 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384C199.2 384 192 391.2 192 400V432C192 440.8 199.2 448 208 448H240C248.8 448 256 440.8 256 432V400C256 391.2 248.8 384 240 384H208zM320 432C320 440.8 327.2 448 336 448H368C376.8 448 384 440.8 384 432V400C384 391.2 376.8 384 368 384H336C327.2 384 320 391.2 320 400V432z\" id=\"mainIconPathAttribute\" stroke-width=\"1\" stroke=\"#ff0000\" filter=\"url(#shadow)\" fill=\"#FB0351\"><\/path><filter id=\"shadow\"><feDropShadow id=\"shadowValue\" stdDeviation=\".5\" dx=\"0\" dy=\"0\" flood-color=\"black\"><\/feDropShadow><\/filter><filter id=\"shadow\"><feDropShadow id=\"shadowValue\" stdDeviation=\".5\" dx=\"0\" dy=\"0\" flood-color=\"black\"><\/feDropShadow><\/filter><\/svg><\/div><div style=\"float:left;margin-left:5px;font-size:12px;font-weight:bold;color:#FB0351;\">May 12th 2026 @ 01:00 PM ET<\/div><div style=\"clear:both;\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"font-size:12px;color:#2B58B5;margin-top:-10px;\"><strong>Speaker: <\/strong>Vicki M. Lambert, CPP<\/div><div style=\"width:120px;text-transform:uppercase;font-size:12px;color:#FB0351;border:2px solid #FB0351;border-radius:30px;padding:1px 5px;margin:10px auto;\">Learn More<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">But, what exactly is anger?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Anger is a complex emotion, one which can be both a blessing and a curse. The blessing can be that anger can motivate us to take action, which is why the anger trigger dynamics is a helpful technique for dealing with anger. When we are in situations that we find frustrating, we often start to feel anger creep in. Knowing the dynamics to deal with anger triggers helps us to quickly remove the anger trigger and replace it with a more productive emotion, such as compassion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The problem with anger is not that you are angry but that you allow the anger to dictate your behavior. Instead of that, you should learn to recognize the triggers for anger, and stem its flow, then use this information to create a more peaceful, productive life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In this article, let us have a look at the anger trigger dynamics: \u201cThe Four Angry \u201cI\u201ds.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Injustice<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Injustice is simply the absence of justice. The anger you feel when you believe you have been wronged is a natural and healthy emotion, and can ultimately be a powerful motivator. However, anger can escalate and turn into overwhelming feelings of rage. This can be especially true when it arises after experiencing a situation that you believe to be unjust. You may feel confused, helpless, and powerless in the face of such unfairness. You may feel like you are the victim of a terrible injustice.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Injury<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The word anger is a strong one but is a lot stronger than you might think. It is common to assume that wrongdoing is what causes anger, but when you are angry, you are feeling like there is something wrong, something you feel you deserve or do not deserve, which can be very hard to deal with. You feel discarded, disrespected, or ignored. This psychological sense of insult and embarrassment can trigger anger.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Invasion<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Whether you consider yourself a timid person or a strong one, it is likely that the majority of people in the world feel some degree of anger at some point in their lives. It is no secret that we have an emotional attachment to our spaces. We may not consciously admit it, but we are highly sensitive to changes in our surroundings. When someone violates our personal space, whether, with a verbal remark, a physical touch, or an unwelcome object, we may become annoyed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Intention<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You might have experienced a situation where you were thinking that someone has done something wrong to you, then only later you realize that the situation has nothing to do with you at all. It is actually quite common, and anyone who has noticed how our mind works only knows that it is an automatic process. The best way to deal with this is to stop making judgments about the situation and try to see the situation from someone else&#8217;s point of view.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Final Words<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Anger is a double-edged power source!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It is a range of feelings, from annoyance and determination to outrage and fierceness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To understand the varied <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.complianceprime.com\/details\/757\/four-faces-anger\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cThe Four Angry \u201cI\u201ds<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, attend the Compliance Prime webinar.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anger is an emotion that can strike at any time and in anyone. If we are not careful, anger can become destructive. 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